Suitable for the growing environment of the baby, so that the baby can realize his potential
Life Scenario Nan Ni is Wen Wen’s colleague and good friend. Last year, they gave birth to a smart and cute pig baby. Nan Ni’s baby is 3 months older than Wen Wen.
Since the baby was born, two good friends have gradually started to solve many problems. They have different views and each have their own reasons.
For example, do you want to buy a small bed? Nanny feels that the baby should sleep in the big bed with his parents, which is convenient for the care, and also helps to cultivate the relationship between the baby and the parents, and also saves money. Wenwen insistsAt the beginning, I need to give Bao an independent small bed. I bought the baby a 2O0O multi-valued log bed at any cost. I also specially found a bed board with 8 environmentally friendly ventilation holes, and equipped it with a bed perimeter.
As soon as the baby was born, he slept in his own small bed. After 8 months, the baby was comfortable in his own environment.
Just someone next to me.
I was able to play alone in my crib.
Wenwen plans to arrange a special children’s room for the baby when it is older, and put matching small tables, chairs, cots and various children’s special furniture in it. Wenwen went to the children’s special furniture early.The shop is around. The children’s furniture there is colorful and cute. Wenwen intends to decorate a small castle like a fairy tale for her baby.
Nanny and Wenwen had a change again this time. Nanny said, we did n’t have our own room when we were young, did n’t we all live a healthy life?
You will spoil your baby like this, and let your baby know what is his own since childhood.
It will become selfish in the future.
Research suggests that baby can only reach his potential in a bad environment suitable for his growth.
I used to compare the pain of the baby in the adult world like this: “Let’s think about the pain of children dismembering in a day.
Imagine that one day we adults live in a giant world. Those people have huge bodies and extremely long legs. They do n’t know how many times faster than us. Their minds do n’t know how agile and smarter we are. We want to walk into him.Room, but the performance of the door of each room exceeds our length, we need some help to climb over, we want to sit down and rest for a while, but the chair is as high as our bench, you have to sit upLet’s do a difficult climb first, we want to brush the dirty clothes, but all the brushes are oversized.
Our hands couldn’t hold it at all.
If this giant still tells us cheerfully that they have been looking forward to our arrival for a long time, then we cannot help but complain about them, they are not prepared and welcomed, and they do not intend to let us live happily inIn their world.
Montessori’s description, very incisively appeared in an environment that is not suitable for the baby, how painful it is for the baby.
People are in a social environment. In this environment, there are some particularly important spiritual forces at work.
If a person cannot live in the environment that he should adapt to, he will not only be able to realize his potential, but he will not understand himself.
Therefore, we must recognize the instinct of baby society and encourage them to spend more time with their peers.
We need to know that the baby’s wish is to make himself smarter by using his hands and replace himself to live more comfortably.
They even behave like adults in their behavior, and they also strive to shape themselves as adults.
As adults know, a beautiful family environment helps families get along in harmony.
Comfortable and beautiful also helps the baby’s learning and activity development.
In an excellent and beautiful environment, the baby’s initiative to explore and discover is bound to be stronger than in a messy environment.
So, what kind of conditions are needed for a baby’s environment?
Experts believe that the environment suitable for the baby’s growth is: 1. It should be conducive to the baby’s actions to create an environment for the baby that has everything the size of which matches his ability, which will help develop their potential.
For example, the clothes hanger is just where he can reach. When he gently opens a door, the armrest of the door is just the size of his hand. The small stool in the room has the right weight.Fitting his arm strength made him not too heavy to lift.
If you give your baby such a suitable psychological environment, his positive attitude towards life in this environment will surely surprise you.
He will even live here happily, and he is full of energy.
2. There are toys that are easy to dismantle by default. Babies often destroy the toys in his hands, especially the toys that are specially made for him.
However, this destructive behavior of the baby is exactly proof of intellectual development.
The reason he broke down the toy was because he wanted to know “how this thing is made”, and at the same time, he wanted to find interesting things in the toy.
Because the toy does not have anything to interest him in appearance, sometimes the baby will smash a toy as hard as the enemy, and discover the mystery hidden inside.
Don’t give the baby a toy that is too sturdy, and the baby can’t be moved or disassembled at all. This is not good for developing the baby’s intelligence.
For example, sweeping, vacuuming, dressing and grooming yourself, the furniture must be lightweight, and the placement must be convenient for the baby to move; the photos must be posted as high as the baby’s line of sight.
Make him easy to watch.
Baby learns to pay attention to environmental hygiene, and learns to wipe off the stains. Over time, he will develop a good habit of maintaining hygiene, and he will scrub everything around him.
Does giving your baby his own space make him selfish?
Nanny’s worries are not infinite, and we often see examples of this: spoiled babies are selfish, and don’t let others touch them at all.
If you give your baby exclusive rooms, furniture, and toys from the beginning, will it make your baby more arrogant and selfish? Furnishing your baby ‘s room, buying furniture is only one aspect of the baby ‘s independent psychological environment, and more important,It is to give baby love and security.
Montessori also said that this phenomenon is that poor mothers cannot afford a nanny because of economic conditions, so they have to bring their babies with them at any time, but such babies are more healthy psychologically; while rich people have nanny,Mothers often throw their babies in a luxurious room and let the babysitter watch and leave. Such babies have more psychological problems when they grow up.
Economic conditions are getting better now.
If the mommy only pays attention to the material satisfaction of the baby, but ignores the selfless love from the mommy and makes emotional communication with the baby, then even the baby ‘s cute room like a palace is not helpful to the baby ‘s mental health.of.